How Guys Make Mistakes In Bed, According To Adult Stars
Adult film stars have openly criticized a common mistake men make in the bedroom—rushing the experience. They argue this habit, particularly among Australian men, can hurt intimacy.
Alicia Davis, a former correctional officer turned adult entertainer, noted, “Too many men focus on just finishing the act instead of making it enjoyable by paying attention to details.”
Alicia Davis says guys should focus more on ‘the little things’ in the bedroom. Credit: @aliciadavisxx/Instagram - Click for More
Alicia Davis says many men focus more on their own pleasure, neglecting their partners’ needs. She finds Irish and British men more emotionally present and sensual.
This aligns with research showing that emotional connection and communication lead to higher sexual satisfaction.
Experts agree: men who prioritize mutual pleasure, listen, and respond to their partners’ needs tend to build stronger, more fulfilling relationships.
Foreplay tends to be skipped by Australian guys, according to Annie Knight. Credit: @anniekknight/Instagram - Click for More
Adult film actress Annie Knight—famous for her bold claims—backs Alicia Davis’s take on men’s approach to intimacy. Knight called out a common issue: skipping foreplay.
She emphasized the need for slow build-up, starting with kisses and gentle touches. Rushing in, she said, often leads to unsatisfying experiences.
Her insights spotlight the importance of patience and connection.
According to Kay Manuel, men ‘derail the whole intimacy experience’. Credit: @officialkaymanuel/Instagram - Click for More
OnlyFans model Kay Manuel echoed Annie Knight’s concerns, saying that many men rush intimacy, which ruins the experience.
She warned that women often fake satisfaction just to boost male egos, leading to a disconnect and shallow connection. Her take underlines how real intimacy requires patience and mutual effort—not just performance.
Katija Cortez, an escort, says female or**sm expectations are unrealistic. Credit: @playmatekatija/Instagram - Click for More
Escort Katija Cortez called out unrealistic expectations around female pleasure, mocking the belief that women can climax dozens of times in one session.
She criticized how some men finish quickly and still ask if their partner “finished,” highlighting a disconnect in mutual satisfaction.
Her comments underscore the need for better communication and realistic expectations in intimate relationships.